i need parental advice

LillDev!l · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 2587 **Location:** OTL&OG

Meh, Alterran no offence but its hard to believe your actualy asking for "parental advice" while you cannot even quit Silkroad yourself ...
Im 17 myself, they are both 16... and if your parents are really both in Iraq i dont think they have it to easy either, and so far ive noticed people who's life aint always a walk-in-the-park are more mature, you cannot "ground" them, they woul'nd care? and if you say one can motorcross, the other has to sit and watch, he might just bring his own money and just motorcross aswell.

As i said before, im 17 myself, and i can take care off myself just fine ... Though i do still live with my parents

Rather then punishing them (which woul'nd work) why dont you try teaching them a bit off responsiblity, if they are really so immature

Mr.Ganji · **Posted:** Sat Jan 10, 2009 6:36 pm

LillDev!l wrote:

Meh, Alterran no offence but its hard to believe your actualy asking for "parental advice" while you cannot even quit Silkroad yourself ...
Im 17 myself, they are both 16... and if your parents are really both in Iraq i dont think they have it to easy either, and so far ive noticed people who's life aint always a walk-in-the-park are more mature, you cannot "ground" them, they woul'nd care? and if you say one can motorcross, the other has to sit and watch, he might just bring his own money and just motorcross aswell.

As i said before, im 17 myself, and i can take care off myself just fine ... Though i do still live with my parents

Rather then punishing them (which woul'nd work) why dont you try teaching them a bit off responsiblity, if they are really so immature

Easier said than done. You don't learn maturity - you develop it as you grow older.

LillDev!l · **Joined:** Aug 2007 **Posts:** 2587 **Location:** OTL&OG

Mr.Ganji wrote:

LillDev!l wrote:

Meh, Alterran no offence but its hard to believe your actualy asking for "parental advice" while you cannot even quit Silkroad yourself ...
Im 17 myself, they are both 16... and if your parents are really both in Iraq i dont think they have it to easy either, and so far ive noticed people who's life aint always a walk-in-the-park are more mature, you cannot "ground" them, they woul'nd care? and if you say one can motorcross, the other has to sit and watch, he might just bring his own money and just motorcross aswell.

As i said before, im 17 myself, and i can take care off myself just fine ... Though i do still live with my parents

Rather then punishing them (which woul'nd work) why dont you try teaching them a bit off responsiblity, if they are really so immature

Easier said than done. You don't learn maturity - you develop it as you grow older.

Well yea, but i kind off mean it like this --> If they do something "bad" let them cook for themselfs, clean up for themselfs etc, or choose to not eat at all, or live in a mess

they'dd atleast learn not everything comes for free then i guess, and probs apreciate you cooking/cleaning up or w/e more

Eeece · **Joined:** Sep 2008 **Posts:** 165 **Location:**

Alterran wrote:

Pally wrote:

In my opinion and I'm not criticizing you, you should have him write out what he did wrong I think that is a good enough punishment.

If he knew what he was doing or what he was looking at yes he should be punished.
Because that can lead to worse things like sex and such.

I'm only trying to help you out here a bit, you can take or leave my advice.

PM me if you want anything else although I will continue reading the topic. Ill be glad to give you my opinions on anything.

thank you for your support and @nader i will look at thoes sites later

and btw my parents just left about a week ago so its rough starting

and to all the critiziers i am sorry abuot how many posts i have done lately its just there has been a lot on my mind

ok nader i took a look at the threads and i gota say they didnt help much at all, in the case of the second one he had a whole family of support and 2 parents
it doesnt really have anything in common with my case but ty for trying

and the first link is just a search and i have yet to go threw any of thoes sites i will do thoes tonight when dylan and cole are in bed

I tought US was taking troops out of iraq not getting more there...

Alterran · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:30 am

yea i no but with barrack in office, im pretty sure more ppl will be deployed

and anyway we just got back from our day at motocross

and yes i did go out and get cod4

cole is on right now ill give his name in a while im not really sure what it is and he wont turn his head away long enough to tell me

btw cole cooks and vaccums and does the laundry i take care of the bills and shopping
and dylan basicly does yardwork and helps me with shopping
or helps cole with laundry

Barotix · **Joined:** Jul 2007 **Posts:** 9250 **Location:** Sand

Eeece wrote:

Alterran wrote:

Pally wrote:

In my opinion and I'm not criticizing you, you should have him write out what he did wrong I think that is a good enough punishment.

If he knew what he was doing or what he was looking at yes he should be punished.
Because that can lead to worse things like sex and such.

I'm only trying to help you out here a bit, you can take or leave my advice.

PM me if you want anything else although I will continue reading the topic. Ill be glad to give you my opinions on anything.

thank you for your support and @nader i will look at thoes sites later

and btw my parents just left about a week ago so its rough starting

and to all the critiziers i am sorry abuot how many posts i have done lately its just there has been a lot on my mind

ok nader i took a look at the threads and i gota say they didnt help much at all, in the case of the second one he had a whole family of support and 2 parents
it doesnt really have anything in common with my case but ty for trying

and the first link is just a search and i have yet to go threw any of thoes sites i will do thoes tonight when dylan and cole are in bed

I tought US was taking troops out of iraq not getting more there...

They lied. iirc, we're staying until 2011. Correct me if I'm wrong; Alt, your brothers are 16 and they can't act responsibly? The belt, when desperate times call for desperate measures.

Alterran · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:58 am

again i would never use violence.
the most ive ever done was punch dylan one day when he tried to hit me but that was about it.

i dont feel like there misbehaving enough for a belt

Nitro · **Joined:** Sep 2007 **Posts:** 4769 **Location:**

Alterran wrote:

btw cole cooks and vaccums and does the laundry i take care of the bills and shopping
and dylan basicly does yardwork and helps me with shopping
or helps cole with laundry

Good to know! This thread is full of win.

Barotix · **Joined:** Jul 2007 **Posts:** 9250 **Location:** Sand

Alterran wrote:

again i would never use violence.
the most ive ever done was punch dylan one day when he tried to hit me but that was about it.

i dont feel like there misbehaving enough for a belt

I don't use violence either, but I have several pounds&feet over my brothers so just saying "you wanna get smacked?" is enough to put them in their place. You need a commanding voice; sometimes pure compassion isn't the way to go. You need to be more aggressive, but you don't have to be physical.

Alterran · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 2:04 am

lol you pretty much just described me ^^

im 215 pounds and cole is 126 dylan is about 152

and yea i have threatend them

ColeS · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 2:38 am

yea chris would never hit us
he is a good brother (most of the time)

rumpleKillskin · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1934 **Location:**

can anyone prove this isnt the same person with different names lol.

Alterran · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:06 am

why would i do that?

what would i gain from faking this?

anyway im quitting this forum and im closing my vent, i dont want to get spammed with autographs so im leaving srf

Crumpets · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 7800 **Location:**

THANK FUCK.

Sovereign · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:09 am

Alterran wrote:

why would i do that?

what would i gain from faking this?

anyway im quitting this forum and im closing my vent, i dont want to get spammed with autographs so im leaving srf

THANK YOU GOD!

Squirt · **Joined:** Jan 2008 **Posts:** 8186 **Location:**

Have they met Mr.Leather belt?

StealMySoda · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 5245 **Location:**

Yessssssss. hes gooone

Blurred · **Joined:** Nov 2006 **Posts:** 2894 **Location:**

lol hes not gonna quit

Peaslums · **Joined:** Jul 2008 **Posts:** 85 **Location:**

CrimsonNuker · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 13791 **Location:**

Peaslums wrote:

*saved

Grimjaw · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:34 am

Alterran wrote:

why would i do that?

what would i gain from faking this?

anyway im quitting this forum and im closing my vent, i dont want to get spammed with autographs so im leaving srf

Tears in heaven.

K a R e E m · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 597 **Location:**

i bet that he gonna make more threads :roll:

Grimjaw · **Posted:** Sun Jan 11, 2009 7:25 pm

He better! I still wait for my very own Autograph!

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