Crossbow+Bard = One of best best European solo-ers, reasonable-good mp healing and normal dances for party play, or being the fastest lurer, pvping will be mainly with rogue, no real purpose for bard there (beside bind, going out of safezone with tambour, or buffing/mp healing others).
Heuksal+Fire+Light+Cold = Most common build at the cap I presume (*cough* cookiecutter *cough*

) but still a nice build to play, good tanking, good hits.
Warrior+Bard = Nice build to, great heavy hits on the fastest character (assuming you wear garment) and shield trash is great for the opponents attacks that take time to load, ofcourse great for party play, never enough warriors

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And as I never got a glaiver high I won't do a estimate on how long it will take.
Don't even think about using the pk2 edit...Your tanking will be fine with 2hand, ofcourse 1hand is better, but you'll still be fine, and the 1hand passives do not stay when switching to 2hand.