This is off the official site, and involves modifing the
XFIRE game files :
1. Make sure you have exited Xfire.
2. Open your Xfire directory.
3. Open the xfire_games.ini file.
4. Press Ctrl+F to find Silkroad.
5. You should see the entry for Silkroad.
6. Remove these two lines:
PlayingDetectType=ByWindow
ProcessWindowTitle=SRO_Client
7. Save the xfire_games.ini file and close it.
8. Run Xfire and launch SRO from Tools | Launch.
http://www.xfire.com/xf/modules.php?nam ... c&t=108597
EDIT : IT DOES NOT INVOLVE EDITING THE SRO CLIENT