A transvestite isn't a homosexual, per se.
A homosexual (forgive the generalisation) would be happy being a man giving it to another man, looking and feeling like a man.
Whereas a transvestite feels they were born into a man's body, when in fact they feel like they are female, and therefore consider the op (snip-snip

), or not and live their life either blatantly dressing and acting like a female, or do this covertly.
I think you are a closet transvestite, either too afraid or embarressed or scared to embrace your obvious need to express yourself in a feminine way, and so use the skin of a female, to role-play your true wish - to be a woman.
My advice - if it feels good, and nobody gets hurt (and I mean your future wife, whether this person be male/female/post-op tranny/whatever), then do it.
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