I Do Not Want To Be Your Girlfriend!!!

Zypher · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 8705 **Location:** Canada

nightbloom wrote:

Zypher wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Most girls learn to deal with unwanted advances before they even graduate High School. Its not like you dont get this same kinda thing, maybe not as blatant, in real life. ~shrug~ You dont have to respond. I grew up in a Navy town. Ive gotten hit on, in one form or another, nearly everyday for most of my life I think. lol Some guys are better at it than others. It's annoying to be sure, but hardly something to fuss a whole lot about. I usually read the funnier ones to the guys on Vent.

She said, “Hello, hey Jo, you wanna give it a go?” Oh! uh huh

mmmz

The girl in your avatar has a really big nose.

hater:[

Geedunk · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 787

Zypher wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Zypher wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Most girls learn to deal with unwanted advances before they even graduate High School. Its not like you dont get this same kinda thing, maybe not as blatant, in real life. ~shrug~ You dont have to respond. I grew up in a Navy town. Ive gotten hit on, in one form or another, nearly everyday for most of my life I think. lol Some guys are better at it than others. It's annoying to be sure, but hardly something to fuss a whole lot about. I usually read the funnier ones to the guys on Vent.

She said, “Hello, hey Jo, you wanna give it a go?” Oh! uh huh

mmmz

The girl in your avatar has a really big nose.

hater:[

We all love Zypher.

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

nightbloom wrote:

HA HA HA HA HA HA About that "I dont know" thing... Fly always asks me, "OK, what is REALLY going on." Look, simple girl speak is easy to get. If we're hurt or angry, its pretty much the opposite of whatever we say.

Girl on phone: You forgot to come pick me up!
Guy: Ooops sorry, Im on my way.
Girl: Nevermind, Ill just walk.

What that really means is, "If I walk anywhere besides from the car to the front door, you are gonna start introducing your right hand as your new girlfriend."

OOOOooh you just told them !!!! But its so true when im ticked ill play it off in hopes my man is smart enough to see his error and correct it ,some guys are intuitive enough to know what to do others are oblivious ...they dont last long .

Dont worry ryoko im gonna respond to your emo post. Just gimmie asec to collect my thoughts.

nightbloom · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 5492 **Location:**

Ryoko wrote:

Bloom I nailed the whale and all I got was a lousy sweater

OMG I LOLED SO HARD..... Beer goggles FTL!

@Passion ~ I can tell them all day, still, only a few get it and they did without me saying anything. Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

lynxz · **Joined:** Jul 2006 **Posts:** 450

nightbloom wrote:

Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Pretty sure umm.. that's not a good thing

Tetsumaru · **Joined:** Dec 2006 **Posts:** 361

lynxz wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Pretty sure umm.. that's not a good thing

hes a metrosexual. HES PROUD. HES NOT GAY. BUT HES CLOSE.

nightbloom · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 5492 **Location:**

lynxz wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Pretty sure umm.. that's not a good thing

Oh yes it is, ask any girl. When he says, "How are you today?" and I say "Fine" he can always seem to tell if I mean "Fine, everything is great" or "Fine, everything suks". That is priceless.

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

Passion wrote:

Dont worry ryoko im gonna respond to your emo post

Is a difference between emo, and not caring anymore.

Rien · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 31

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The girl in your avatar has a really big nose.

Um....that girl is hot.

Hot Girl Avatar FTW

nightbloom · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 5492 **Location:**

Ryoko wrote:

Passion wrote:

Dont worry ryoko im gonna respond to your emo post

Is a difference between emo, and not caring anymore.

I still

you tho.

And about Fly, ask Ryoko... He isnt metro, he just has this air about him. Like he can fix whatever it is and its not as bad as you think. Fly looks at things like no one else does. Its amazing.

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

nightbloom wrote:

Ryoko wrote:

Bloom I nailed the whale and all I got was a lousy sweater

OMG I LOLED SO HARD..... Beer goggles FTL!

@Passion ~ I can tell them all day, still, only a few get it and they did without me saying anything. Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Im edit that pic and change the text to above words. Heh heh

lynxz · **Joined:** Jul 2006 **Posts:** 450

nightbloom wrote:

lynxz wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Pretty sure umm.. that's not a good thing

Oh yes it is, ask any girl. When he says, "How are you today?" and I say "Fine" he can always seem to tell if I mean "Fine, everything is great" or "Fine, everything suks". That is priceless.

Hmmm.. Do you guys discuss guys too? And what you both like about tom cruise? Etc etc?

Ryoko wrote:

Passion wrote:

Dont worry ryoko im gonna respond to your emo post

Is a difference between emo, and not caring anymore.

Isn't that what emo is?

PsYch008 · **Joined:** Aug 2006 **Posts:** 4451 **Location:** reno

wow this thread really grew since yesterday... :-D

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

lynxz wrote:

Isn't that what emo is?

No? I believe we officially defined emo / emo's age group / emo's behavior pattern in the off topic lounge.

Just because I give the middle finger to the whole 'try to make an impression on some complete stranger' scene and Im happier playing WoW (honestly) doesn't mean I fall into that catagory.

lynxz · **Joined:** Jul 2006 **Posts:** 450

Ryoko wrote:

lynxz wrote:

Isn't that what emo is?

No? I believe we officially defined emo / emo's age group / emo's behavior pattern in the off topic lounge.

I though emo dealt with being anti-conformist and no longer caring about society and rules.. thus "no longer caring"...

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

Ryoko wrote:

Passion wrote:

And men will stare and nod and stare and whisper to there friends and stare and watch us dance and stare and send a drink and stare and stare and stare and then the night is over and he never said two words to me.

Yup you are right. Cuz 9 times out of 10 saying something is pointless and the responce is depressing. Once you hear "go home to mom" or "get lost" or "I have a boyfriend" it gets old real fast. And im not dealing with it anymore.

Passion wrote:

7x's outta ten if he had any witt humor and inteligence wasnt a big fatty with yeelow teeth smelling like marlboros and cornchips.

Thats SO me /sarcasm

Passion wrote:

he would get my number if he only had the balls to ask. Would he get lucky that night no and prolly not for a good long time but he would have a chance to get to know me.

Ummmm odds are any good looking girl has a boyfriend already. Dick is worthless now a days; every EX I had found a new boyfriend the same week. Weren't you talking about one too? See...

Quote:

Staring sending a drink and poking ure friend to have him stare too just sends you home a little bit poorer wondering "what if" maybe she wouldnt be a bitch.

Odds are, shes a bitch. Maybe your not. But most of them at the bar I guarantee. Especially when guard is up 200%.

Passion wrote:

I notice guys are looking for the easy way in they see a good looking fem with money of her own that isnt piss drunk falling on random nobdy's for attention and it scares them.

Your right. Cuz its not even worth talking to or trying. If I have to hear another shit rejection comment again, I'll shoot myself.

Allow me to slide down the bar a bit, theres a desperate, either unhappily married or divorced 30 year old, whos pretty cute, approaches ME and will probably score me some. They laugh, they giggle and I swear to god .... they are oh-so-easy. Thats the whole reason they went to the bar in the first place. Have a wild time, and at the end of the day, I get to go home, play WoW and no one gives a god damn.

Like every EX cheated or replaced me the next new model; one skipped country, one found a guy with a jetski (note to self, buy jetski) blah blah blahhhhhhhhhh. All hot girls. (Ask spirit lol...he saw pics of some ex) I'm not dealing with it or trying anymore. Been single for a what.... a year now?

And sorry OP, that original post had 'stuck up' written all over it.

O gawd ryoko its not a big deal if some stuck up snotrag ignores you chances are she actually thought you were cute but her knee jerk rection to protect herself is to shoo you away asap. You arent unatractive (if thats you on the bike) you need to KNOW that when you approach a female confidence is seksi we love it . If i girl shoo's you off don't give up so easily if you are interested in more than a 1 nighter. FYI if i was single and you came up to me simply said hello gave me a second before you actually hit on me so i can feel you out a lil before i respond i would talk to you and i am a tough cookie. NEWSFLASH the hotter a girl is the less she gets hit on they all stare but very few got the moxy to act on it especially if her friends are hot too. We know this me and my girls discuss it . And when we are out in the "unaproachable mode" IE 4-5 of us together anyguy who has the guts ends up hanging out with us for a lil while at least . Quit being such a woosy boy and suck it up and go for what you want dont settle for the 30 year old divorced slut.

You would be surprised just how many pretty girls are alot more single than you would expect. When you are cute you get to take you pick and girls are indecsive. Stand out do something crazy USE THE FARKING PHONE . Get noticed amongst her suitors huys are clueless when it comes to what tickles a fem , its not your car,job,clothes,toys sure thats what we see at first ...but do you know how many guys have all those things already? Send me flowers take me on a picnic instead of spago's be original.

You are right gaurd is up 400% scumbag radar is spinning and the claws are exoposed...scared? Dont be its not you our gaurd is up for its that 1 guy you the 1 he lives with mom has no job leaches from his friends has 1 set of "go out clothes" yeah you have him as a friend.

Find the right girl and she will play wow with you a while back a pic of me and a few friends landed here 5 girls in the pic 3 of them play mmo's ...

You are attracting that kinda girl hon , I dunno what you are doing maybe showing off too much cause you seem to have your ducks in a row for a young guy. To avoid the "diggers" hon the best advice i can give you is dont say too much about what you have or what you do. Dont blow your wad on a first date but dont be a cheap ass either above all be original stick out in her mind and make sure she is thinking about you send flowers make phone calls just to say hi LISTEN!!! to her .

And for **** sake stop convincing yourself the answer is no before you ask the question assume the answer is yer confidence will take you were you wanna be.

And get outta the nightclub type bars find a more laid beck venue to go hunting in lounges and small places are much better for meeting quality people.

[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:13 pm

lynxz wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

Fly is my best friend cause he speaks girl so well.

Pretty sure umm.. that's not a good thing

i can talk to girls real good just shit at chatting up

when you get to know girls (friends) you know when they are sad etc and iv never seen it a bad thing i can understand them a lot of the time just not all the time

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

Quote:

Send me flowers take me on a picnic instead of spago's be original.

LOLOL imma share something

There was this hottie (ermmmm.....kim... thats it) was always after me when I had a GF (kinda funny)

Then went to a show with her, then to a hopping club later

So she parks her car across the street (mistake) and it gets towed to the impound lot, see see?

So shes cryin and all, and we left the bar to go get her car out of impound, and of course she aint got any money (classic)

I throw down bout 110$ and bailed her car out, we went back to the bar and my buddy (who I went with originally) got arrested because I wasnt there to drive him and he was drunk. The bar closed while we picked up her car and he tried to leave on his own (sigh)

While in the lot someone brushed the back of the acura, so now I have some nice long dents and rubber streaks to match.

So had to go to the PO station (while drunk) and couldn't get jack out of jail anyway. Dumb to go there after drinking but, never leave a man behind.

I felt bad for her so the next day I did pick up the phone and have flowers sent to her house

Called later to make sure they showed up and it was hem haw "oh... you sent those...."

She never picked up the phone for me again, and gave me the shoo.

$110+bar tab + damaged car + buddy in jail and I get the shoo.

So sorry pass.... **** that

Some months later I got a second chance, and we went to an MMA show. My so called 'friend' really liked her though. While I was on my cell, talking to my brother, he told her that I was talking to my ex. And he told her, that I only went to the show with her to make my ex jealous.

It was total cock block / bullshit / lie and were no longer friends.

[SD]Master_Wong · **Posted:** Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:23 pm

Ryoko wrote:

Quote:

Send me flowers take me on a picnic instead of spago's be original.

LOLOL imma share something

There was this hottie (ermmmm.....kim... thats it) was always after me when I had a GF (kinda funny)

Then went to a show with her, then to a hopping club later

So she parks her car across the street (mistake) and it gets towed to the impound lot, see see?

So shes cryin and all, and we left the bar to go get her car out of impound, and of course she aint got any money (classic)

I throw down bout 110$ and bailed her car out, we went back to the bar and my buddy (who I went with originally) got arrested because I wasnt there to drive him and he was drunk. The bar closed while we picked up her car and he tried to leave on his own (sigh)

While in the lot someone brushed the back of the acura, so now I have some nice long dents and rubber streaks to match.

So had to go to the PO station (while drunk) and couldn't get jack out of jail anyway. Dumb to go there after drinking but, never leave a man behind.

I felt bad for her so the next day I did pick up the phone and have flowers sent to her house

Called later to make sure they showed up and it was hem haw "oh... you sent those...."

She never picked up the phone for me again, and gave me the shoo.

$110+bar tab + damaged car + buddy in jail and I get the shoo.

So sorry pass.... **** that

Some months later I got a second chance, and we went to an MMA show. My so called 'friend' really liked her though. While I was on my cell, talking to my brother, he told her that I was talking to my ex. And he told her, that I only went to the show with her to make my ex jealous.

It was total cock block / bullshit / lie and were no longer friends.

sorry i just have to say it please dont hate me for it

OWNED

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

Ryoko wrote:

Quote:

Send me flowers take me on a picnic instead of spago's be original.

LOLOL imma share something

There was this hottie (ermmmm.....kim... thats it) was always after me when I had a GF (kinda funny)

Then went to a show with her, then to a hopping club later

So she parks her car across the street (mistake) and it gets towed to the impound lot, see see?

So shes cryin and all, and we left the bar to go get her car out of impound, and of course she aint got any money (classic)

I throw down bout 110$ and bailed her car out, we went back to the bar and my buddy (who I went with originally) got arrested because I wasnt there to drive him and he was drunk. The bar closed while we picked up her car and he tried to leave on his own (sigh)

While in the lot someone brushed the back of the acura, so now I have some nice long dents and rubber streaks to match.

So had to go to the PO station (while drunk) and couldn't get jack out of jail anyway. Dumb to go there after drinking but, never leave a man behind.

I felt bad for her so the next day I did pick up the phone and have flowers sent to her house

Called later to make sure they showed up and it was hem haw "oh... you sent those...."

She never picked up the phone for me again, and gave me the shoo.

$110+bar tab + damaged car + buddy in jail and I get the shoo.

So sorry pass.... **** that

Some months later I got a second chance, and we went to an MMA show. My so called 'friend' really liked her though. While I was on my cell, talking to my brother, he told her that I was talking to my ex. And he told her, that I only went to the show with her to make my ex jealous.

It was total cock block / bullshit / lie and were no longer friends.

Awww she is just a hooch try try again there is a passion out there for you, you just gotta find her.

Your friend ..... ya over and he is a scumbag. watch that shit i cant tell you how many times my huys best "friends" will hit on me in the most forward ways when they eave the room. Know who is around you.

Rien · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 31

Quote:

OWNED

+1

Seriously though, most women dont know what they want and most guys just want 1 thing. It's messed up, but its life. You just gotta keep trying until you find someone.......or something?

nightbloom · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 5492 **Location:**

A girl knows within a few minutes if she can or cannot sleep with a guy. Generally, there is nothing you can do about that one way or the other. I know that personally, when I get that "ZING" feeling, my libido doesnt care if he has a job or lives with his mother.

Also, a guy with a GF is a safe flirt. I flirt with you, you flirt with me and we both feel good. Doesnt mean Im gonna sleep with you when you're single.

I know, the rules are dizzying in their complexity. Even I dont know why or who made them. lol

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

nightbloom wrote:

A girl knows within a few minutes if she can or cannot sleep with a guy. Generally, there is nothing you can do about that one way or the other. I know that personally, when I get that "ZING" feeling, my libido doesnt care if he has a job or lives with his mother.

Also, a guy with a GF is a safe flirt. I flirt with you, you flirt with me and we both feel good. Doesnt mean Im gonna sleep with you when you're single.

I know, the rules are dizzying in their complexity. Even I dont know why or who made them. lol

I dunno bloom i have been "won" over . And i dont know within a few mins if i can sleep with a guy . I might think he is hot but sleep with him naaaaa he is gonna have to be more than just hot to get that close to me.

Jabo · **Posted:** Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:31 pm

9. You could probably get a "real" girl friend if you weren't playing games
24 / 7.

lol, true

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

I dun even bother with that 'win over' stuff

Things come to me naturally and thats how I like it. People do approach and people often buy me drinks too. Girls pull me aside when im ordering a drink and ask if I wanna dance.

// Edit - Sometimes their nasty but I'll still accept a free drink. lol.

The minute I have to convince, compete or prove im outtie. Theres nothing more self esteem lowering than having to 'prove' or compete with some dork.

That comment about me in my pic? My lil thread was deleted by "omg hacker" but the url remains

http://www.silkroadforums.com/ryoko

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

Ryoko wrote:

I dun even bother with that 'win over' stuff

Things come to me naturally and thats how I like it. People do approach and people often buy me drinks too. Girls pull me aside when im ordering a drink and ask if I wanna dance.

// Edit - Sometimes their nasty but I'll still accept a free drink. lol.

The minute I have to convince, compete or prove im outtie. Theres nothing more self esteem lowering than having to 'prove' or compete with some dork.

That comment about me in my pic? My lil thread was deleted by "omg hacker" but the url remains

http://www.silkroadforums.com/ryoko

Nothing and i mean nothing worth having in life is easy. Its obvious you are too bitter to see what im trying to explain to you maybe you are still too young or maybe your heart was badly trampled ,either way time will fix it.

nightbloom · **Joined:** Jan 2006 **Posts:** 5492 **Location:**

Passion wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

A girl knows within a few minutes if she can or cannot sleep with a guy. Generally, there is nothing you can do about that one way or the other. I know that personally, when I get that "ZING" feeling, my libido doesnt care if he has a job or lives with his mother.

Also, a guy with a GF is a safe flirt. I flirt with you, you flirt with me and we both feel good. Doesnt mean Im gonna sleep with you when you're single.

I know, the rules are dizzying in their complexity. Even I dont know why or who made them. lol

I dunno bloom i have been "won" over . And i dont know within a few mins if i can sleep with a guy . I might think he is hot but sleep with him naaaaa he is gonna have to be more than just hot to get that close to me.

That zing has nothing to do with hot or not. You either have it or you dont. There are exceptions to every rule of course. I tend to trust my instincts and go with them. No amount of flowers, dates or anything else is gonna work without that tummy ticklin' zing feeling.

Passion · **Joined:** Oct 2006 **Posts:** 236

nightbloom wrote:

Passion wrote:

nightbloom wrote:

A girl knows within a few minutes if she can or cannot sleep with a guy. Generally, there is nothing you can do about that one way or the other. I know that personally, when I get that "ZING" feeling, my libido doesnt care if he has a job or lives with his mother.

Also, a guy with a GF is a safe flirt. I flirt with you, you flirt with me and we both feel good. Doesnt mean Im gonna sleep with you when you're single.

I know, the rules are dizzying in their complexity. Even I dont know why or who made them. lol

I dunno bloom i have been "won" over . And i dont know within a few mins if i can sleep with a guy . I might think he is hot but sleep with him naaaaa he is gonna have to be more than just hot to get that close to me.

That zing has nothing to do with hot or not. You either have it or you dont. There are exceptions to every rule of course. I tend to trust my instincts and go with them. No amount of flowers, dates or anything else is gonna work without that tummy ticklin' zing feeling.

Wooo hooo bloom has an ID from hell lookout boys!!!!! I agree about the tummy thing sometimes its instant but then again sometimes its not so obviously there.

ziddy1232 · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 1391 **Location:**

Ryoko wrote:

http://www.silkroadforums.com/ryoko

Have i been here long enough to get a pitcher of beer?

If so, i'll have it to go.

Ryoko · **Joined:** Dec 2005 **Posts:** 6390 **Location:**

Passion wrote:

Nothing and i mean nothing worth having in life is easy. Its obvious you are too bitter to see what im trying to explain to you maybe you are still too young or maybe your heart was badly trampled ,either way time will fix it.

Then understand what 'im' saying.

Rejection is ego crushing and self esteem lowering. Going up to a random stranger and giving it a shot hasn't proved any gain for me.

That does make me kinda feel like im being attacked, without knowing my personal history or the things I dealt with, especially the baby being born that wasnt mine (many years ago anyway) etc.

But...

1. Im not so young.
2. Yes I wasted a lot of time on a lot of people
3. Yes for the moment and last year, I havnt put effort.

Overall point on thread, if someone like me bumped into you in SRO and I said "Cute butt, can I lick it?" maybe it should be taken with a grain of salt, and not a 10k character post on a forum

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