flirty girls or girls that actually like you

Jstar1 · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4757 **Location:**

does anyone know how to tell if a girl is just flirting with you, or is really liking you? I keep meeting girls who are interested in me, but im not sure if its genuine interest or if they are just like that.

I`m afraid to ask any of them out, what if they are just playing with you?

thanks

Rainigul · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4490 **Location:**

If they are just playing with you, then that's the last time you'll see them, so it doesn't matter.

Dark Shifty · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1322 **Location:**

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

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Breed · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:29 am

Depends on the relationship you want mang.

Serious?
Open?
Just playing around?
Marriage type shit?

Tasdik · **Joined:** Jan 2007 **Posts:** 13206 **Location:** Life

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

That plan is....FLAWLESS!
Do it.

Don't really do it.

Ichimaru420 · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 2778 **Location:** quit

I myself am in that predicament a few friends of mine said I shud try paying less attention 2 her and-or making her jealous by giving more attention to other girls and see if she starts trying 2 make more of an effort...maybe this method might work 4 you.

IceCrash · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:41 am

It'd be easy to be honest..
just think
Someone that's flirting with you(obviously for a purpose),might want you cause you're sexy, you're sensual, you're hot... and wants to kiss you etc.
That's not entirly , but mostly phyisical right?

If Someone truly cares about you, and likes you, they'll worry about you right?
And also, they'll want good stuff/the best for ya.
Etc etc etc, just two examples.

Knowing these two things, it's very easy to understand what's going on.

By a quickly conversation

One or two questions will do it.

Ofc this can complicate itself in the process, but you'll have to understand things, and if it does, and you really like that someone, take it slowly and give urself time to understand and time for actions/things to happens.

But well, for basic shizz, if you know the first 2 things, it should be easy for ya to figure what you want out ^^

But dont forget, things like these arent linear :S

Edit: added the "might" and the "(obviously for a purpose)" :oops:

Edit2: Just realized you might be talking about something different of what i have in head >.>
Great >.<''
oh well.. meh

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 3:06 am

you don't know. Its one of the mysterious habits of girls. Don't think of a system cause everyones an individual just go with it until someone else close to her tells you she wants to date you. Chances are if she's flirting with you she doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet herself...and talking to you is not flirting...

mahumps · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 1715 **Location:**

That's the mystery when it comes to girls. No man can tell really.

Nantosh · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 7:38 am

mahumps wrote:

That's the mystery when it comes to girls. No man can tell really.

It's half the plot in most TV shows now ¬¬

Grandpa · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 867 **Location:**

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

Can't tell the difference between a flower and a weed? It's simple, uproot them all, the ones that grow back are weeds.

~Granps

Nantosh · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 9:06 am

Grandpa wrote:

Can't tell the difference between a flower and a weed? It's simple, uproot them all, the ones that grow back are weeds.

He's actually right too.

Trice · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 9:18 am

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

Thats how I got Vannie :love:

Spoiler!

Jstar1 · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4757 **Location:**

Grandpa wrote:

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

Can't tell the difference between a flower and a weed? It's simple, uproot them all, the ones that grow back are weeds.

~Granps

what do you mean

XemnasXD wrote:

you don't know. Its one of the mysterious habits of girls. Don't think of a system cause everyones an individual just go with it until someone else close to her tells you she wants to date you. Chances are if she's flirting with you she doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet herself...and talking to you is not flirting...

I think thats right, i think ill just wait for clues to see if she is geinuinely liking me or not

mahumps · **Joined:** Feb 2007 **Posts:** 1715 **Location:**

Jstar1 wrote:

XemnasXD wrote:

you don't know. Its one of the mysterious habits of girls. Don't think of a system cause everyones an individual just go with it until someone else close to her tells you she wants to date you. Chances are if she's flirting with you she doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet herself...and talking to you is not flirting...

I think thats right, i think ill just wait for clues to see if she is geinuinely liking me or not

The problem is you can't find any clues. Best thing to do is ask her.

tedtwilliger · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 10:18 am

Jstar1 · **Joined:** Mar 2007 **Posts:** 4757 **Location:**

mahumps wrote:

Jstar1 wrote:

XemnasXD wrote:

you don't know. Its one of the mysterious habits of girls. Don't think of a system cause everyones an individual just go with it until someone else close to her tells you she wants to date you. Chances are if she's flirting with you she doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet herself...and talking to you is not flirting...

I think thats right, i think ill just wait for clues to see if she is geinuinely liking me or not

The problem is you can't find any clues. Best thing to do is ask her.

what do i say

"do you like me?"

TOloseGT · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 7129 **Location:**

no wai

best thing to do is to invite her for dinner, then bring her home, pop in finding nemo, then cuddle up on the couch. if she kisses u on the cheek 3 times during the night, u'll know. but here's the catch, u don't do nething. make it like u don't know what's going on. give her this wary kinda look wit one eyebrow raised, then go back to watch the movie. after finding nemo's done, pop in shrek 2, shrek 1 doesn't cut it.

then, if all goes according to plan, u guys fall asleep.

the next day, she'll aim one of ur best friends and ask how to get u to like her. they'll talk for a few days, and she'll figure something out. when u guys are all hanging out, ur friend will bring u outside to talk to u alone and tell u that she likes u a lot. u'll be like "wth, i didn't know that" and he'll ask u if u like her back, and u'll say "yea, i guess..." and u go back in and ask her to a picnic during lunch.

it worked 100% :love:

Swindler · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 12:17 pm

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

hahahaha!

Stress · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 12:31 pm

TOloseGT wrote:

no wai

best thing to do is to invite her for dinner, then bring her home, pop in finding nemo, then cuddle up on the couch. if she kisses u on the cheek 3 times during the night, u'll know. but here's the catch, u don't do nething. make it like u don't know what's going on. give her this wary kinda look wit one eyebrow raised, then go back to watch the movie. after finding nemo's done, pop in shrek 2, shrek 1 doesn't cut it.

then, if all goes according to plan, u guys fall asleep.

the next day, she'll aim one of ur best friends and ask how to get u to like her. they'll talk for a few days, and she'll figure something out. when u guys are all hanging out, ur friend will bring u outside to talk to u alone and tell u that she likes u a lot. u'll be like "wth, i didn't know that" and he'll ask u if u like her back, and u'll say "yea, i guess..." and u go back in and ask her to a picnic during lunch.

it worked 100% :love:

I've worked in a slightly different manner, and so far, it was very effective with me too. If a girl only wants to flirt, she will be straightforward when you approach her, and there will be virtually nothing holding her back. She won't be shy or anything. What I've done is offer the girl a little attention, and carefully study her reactions. By "a little attention" I mean small things, not such as to give away if I am interested in her or not. At first, I appeared to be impartial, but still giving her space to act as she naturally thinks fit.

If some girl really liked me, then I could tell instantly. Thing is, I think it's virtually impossible for a girl who really likes you to come at you just like that, with nothing holding her back or no second thought. Where I saw a little bit of shyness, she was maybe looking down at the floor or away from me, when I got closer to her, or offered her a little bit of attention in the form of "innocent" gestures. I believe for a girl that really feels something for you, it's impossible for her to remain passive and untouched, even by your slightest gestures or intentions.

After two or three encounters, you will know for sure what's behind her.

IceCrash · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:12 pm

Grandpa wrote:

Dark Shifty wrote:

tie her up and point a gun at her head and ask if she likes you, if she says yes, shes a liar and deserves a bullet in her skull, if she says no, call her a whore and put a bullet in her skull. so far that has worked for me

Spoiler!

Can't tell the difference between a flower and a weed? It's simple, uproot them all, the ones that grow back are weeds.

~Granps

Very well said ^^
Idk why i find it similar to what i said even if what you said is more advanced than what i said

Even if you all find a good way to discover all that "mistery" out
you know that, it depends on the people you're doing it with too right?
There are tons of ways lol

But imagination should help on this one O.o

and lol @tolo you god damn player!
xD

StealMySoda · **Joined:** Sep 2006 **Posts:** 5245 **Location:**

If you actually enjoy spending time with them, and it seems like they enjoy spending time with you, then go for it ask em out. If your just gonna ask a girl out cause you think they are hot, your the dick, not her. Get to know the girl before hand and don't do what I did, which was to date the new girl that arrived in our class every year (4 years in a row >_<).

Grandpa · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 867 **Location:**

Things were simple for me when I was growing up.

There were 'good girls' and of course some 'bad girls'. Nobody spoke to 'bad girls' except JDs (Juvenile Delinquents). There were no 'gangs'. We didn't have sex, didn't speak about sex except behind closed doors, in whispers, and we didn't know what we were talking about. No sex-ed in school, none of my friends had a clue about female anatomy. Nobody had seen a vagina or even a picture of a vagina. My mom was a nurse and I had access to medical books so I thought I had it all figured out. The speech about the 'birds and the bees' was a literal thing. Parents actually spoke about bees and plant pollination when trying to talk to their kids about sex. "Son, when two people love each other very, very much..."

'Friends with benefits'? Unheard of. Guys liked cars, girls liked stupid stuff. We didn't know about child molesters, never heard the "if he touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable" speech. Of course we did what was called 'experiment'.

Two sisters lived next door to me. Laurel and Heather (no kidding, that was their names - their parents named them after plants). I was very young and Laurel invited me over to her house, we snuck under her bed and did was was called "Playing Doctor". Her dad caught us. There was no guile in things so that if somebody was even talking to you it was because they wanted to, not because they were seeking a reaction, it was because they LIKED you. Simple. If they were hitting you in the face it was because they didn't like you.

My parents 'protected' me when I was a child and I was allowed to be a child. Innocence protected me too. Protected from what you may ask? From adult lessons learned too early in life. Lessons like "Love Hurts". Have you ever seen the movie, The Summer of 42? It's one of my favorites. They were teens and one generation prior to me but it was simpler then. Seems to me that with all the changes we are stealing childhood from our children. Same thing happened back then too, but not in such sophisticated and well planned ways.

~Grandpa

blackfalcon · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1865 **Location:**

Grandpa wrote:

Things were simple for me when I was growing up.

There were 'good girls' and of course some 'bad girls'. Nobody spoke to 'bad girls' except JDs (Juvenile Delinquents). There were no 'gangs'. We didn't have sex, didn't speak about sex except behind closed doors, in whispers, and we didn't know what we were talking about. No sex-ed in school, none of my friends had a clue about female anatomy. Nobody had seen a vagina or even a picture of a vagina. My mom was a nurse and I had access to medical books so I thought I had it all figured out. The speech about the 'birds and the bees' was a literal thing. Parents actually spoke about bees and plant pollination when trying to talk to their kids about sex. "Son, when two people love each other very, very much..."

'Friends with benefits'? Unheard of. Guys liked cars, girls liked stupid stuff. We didn't know about child molesters, never heard the "if he touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable" speech. Of course we did what was called 'experiment'.

Two sisters lived next door to me. Laurel and Heather (no kidding, that was their names - their parents named them after plants). I was very young and Laurel invited me over to her house, we snuck under her bed and did was was called "Playing Doctor". Her dad caught us. There was no guile in things so that if somebody was even talking to you it was because they wanted to, not because they were seeking a reaction, it was because they LIKED you. Simple. If they were hitting you in the face it was because they didn't like you.

My parents 'protected' me when I was a child and I was allowed to be a child. Innocence protected me too. Protected from what you may ask? From adult lessons learned too early in life. Lessons like "Love Hurts". Have you ever seen the movie, The Summer of 42? It's one of my favorites. They were teens and one generation prior to me but it was simpler then. Seems to me that with all the changes we are stealing childhood from our children. Same thing happened back then too, but not in such sophisticated and well planned ways.

<~~ haven't seen my friend since forever...

~Grandpa

dude if ur that old why are u on a forum with a bunch of teens/young adults? lol

Grandpa · **Joined:** Feb 2008 **Posts:** 867 **Location:**

blackfalcon wrote:

dude if ur that old why are u on a forum with a bunch of teens/young adults? lol

Greetings, Blackfalcon.

Nice to meet you.

~Gramps

blackfalcon · **Joined:** Jun 2007 **Posts:** 1865 **Location:**

Grandpa wrote:

blackfalcon wrote:

dude if ur that old why are u on a forum with a bunch of teens/young adults? lol

Greetings, Blackfalcon.

Nice to meet you.

~Gramps

hi dude

jk'ink bout u being old lol

-falcon

XemnasXD · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:16 pm

Grandpa wrote:

Things were simple for me when I was growing up.

There were 'good girls' and of course some 'bad girls'. Nobody spoke to 'bad girls' except JDs (Juvenile Delinquents). There were no 'gangs'. We didn't have sex, didn't speak about sex except behind closed doors, in whispers, and we didn't know what we were talking about. No sex-ed in school, none of my friends had a clue about female anatomy. Nobody had seen a vagina or even a picture of a vagina. My mom was a nurse and I had access to medical books so I thought I had it all figured out. The speech about the 'birds and the bees' was a literal thing. Parents actually spoke about bees and plant pollination when trying to talk to their kids about sex. "Son, when two people love each other very, very much..."

'Friends with benefits'? Unheard of. Guys liked cars, girls liked stupid stuff. We didn't know about child molesters, never heard the "if he touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable" speech. Of course we did what was called 'experiment'.

Two sisters lived next door to me. Laurel and Heather (no kidding, that was their names - their parents named them after plants). I was very young and Laurel invited me over to her house, we snuck under her bed and did was was called "Playing Doctor". Her dad caught us. There was no guile in things so that if somebody was even talking to you it was because they wanted to, not because they were seeking a reaction, it was because they LIKED you. Simple. If they were hitting you in the face it was because they didn't like you.

My parents 'protected' me when I was a child and I was allowed to be a child. Innocence protected me too. Protected from what you may ask? From adult lessons learned too early in life. Lessons like "Love Hurts". Have you ever seen the movie, The Summer of 42? It's one of my favorites. They were teens and one generation prior to me but it was simpler then. Seems to me that with all the changes we are stealing childhood from our children. Same thing happened back then too, but not in such sophisticated and well planned ways.

~Grandpa

sounds like you grew up in a some kind of pleasantville. I would hate a place like that...besides everywhere has its darksides either you glossed over some details in your story or maybe your forgetting something. If its one that has and will never change its mens inability to understand women....thats both universal and timeless

IceCrash · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:18 pm

Grandpa wrote:

Things were simple for me when I was growing up.

There were 'good girls' and of course some 'bad girls'. Nobody spoke to 'bad girls' except JDs (Juvenile Delinquents). There were no 'gangs'. We didn't have sex, didn't speak about sex except behind closed doors, in whispers, and we didn't know what we were talking about. No sex-ed in school, none of my friends had a clue about female anatomy. Nobody had seen a vagina or even a picture of a vagina. My mom was a nurse and I had access to medical books so I thought I had it all figured out. The speech about the 'birds and the bees' was a literal thing. Parents actually spoke about bees and plant pollination when trying to talk to their kids about sex. "Son, when two people love each other very, very much..."

'Friends with benefits'? Unheard of. Guys liked cars, girls liked stupid stuff. We didn't know about child molesters, never heard the "if he touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable" speech. Of course we did what was called 'experiment'.

Two sisters lived next door to me. Laurel and Heather (no kidding, that was their names - their parents named them after plants). I was very young and Laurel invited me over to her house, we snuck under her bed and did was was called "Playing Doctor". Her dad caught us. There was no guile in things so that if somebody was even talking to you it was because they wanted to, not because they were seeking a reaction, it was because they LIKED you. Simple. If they were hitting you in the face it was because they didn't like you.

My parents 'protected' me when I was a child and I was allowed to be a child. Innocence protected me too. Protected from what you may ask? From adult lessons learned too early in life. Lessons like "Love Hurts". Have you ever seen the movie, The Summer of 42? It's one of my favorites. They were teens and one generation prior to me but it was simpler then. Seems to me that with all the changes we are stealing childhood from our children. Same thing happened back then too, but not in such sophisticated and well planned ways.

~Grandpa

The sad and harsh truth
>.<''

Amelie · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:35 pm

XemnasXD wrote:

you don't know. Its one of the mysterious habits of girls. Don't think of a system cause everyones an individual just go with it until someone else close to her tells you she wants to date you. Chances are if she's flirting with you she doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet herself...and talking to you is not flirting...

lol you shuda been a girl! you sure know a lot about it.

and you're right.

yesterday i went to a french meeting in a bar, we had some wine and etc.
Then i saw this brazilian guy who dropped his cellphone (it was in his pocket and it fell down), so i called him and told him what just happened, he came and picked up his phone and he went away.
I was with my cousin who came from greece to visit me, and then this guy came again and he was like "hey you girls wanna join me and my friends?" i was like "yah why not, sure"

so we had a good chat and then this guy thought i was like flirting with him or some, at the end i told him that he was so out of the context, so i took my cousin and sit somewhere else with my girlfriends.

It's amazing how male people, based on a plain conversation, can think the woman is interested in them. tsk tsk

dom · **Posted:** Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:36 pm

TOloseGT wrote:

no wai

best thing to do is to invite her for dinner, then bring her home, pop in finding nemo, then cuddle up on the couch. if she kisses u on the cheek 3 times during the night, u'll know. but here's the catch, u don't do nething. make it like u don't know what's going on. give her this wary kinda look wit one eyebrow raised, then go back to watch the movie. after finding nemo's done, pop in shrek 2, shrek 1 doesn't cut it.

then, if all goes according to plan, u guys fall asleep.

the next day, she'll aim one of ur best friends and ask how to get u to like her. they'll talk for a few days, and she'll figure something out. when u guys are all hanging out, ur friend will bring u outside to talk to u alone and tell u that she likes u a lot. u'll be like "wth, i didn't know that" and he'll ask u if u like her back, and u'll say "yea, i guess..." and u go back in and ask her to a picnic during lunch.

it worked 100% :love:

That doesn't work on girls older than 14.

If she's being flirty, she's probably like that with everyone and doesn't like you. If you want to find out, ask her to give you head. Then she either likes you or is easy, ask her for a rusty trombone to see if she REALLY likes you, rather than being easy.

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